Honestly, I find this question a little vague—which community? I belong to many: cultural (Indian), linguistic (Tamil), regional (South Indian, Los Angeles), professional (comedian, actor, video editor), and creative (entertainment industry at large). I engage with different ones at different times, depending on where life is pulling me. But I’ve noticed I’m at my best when I’m actively connecting with at least one of them.

Here are a few ways I stay involved:

1. Eventbrite: My Secret Weapon for Creative Networking

Once a month, I go on Eventbrite and search for keywords like “filmmakers”, “creators”, or “indie film” in Los Angeles. I usually RSVP to 3–4 free events that catch my eye. (Pro tip: RSVP to multiple—plans change!) Then I check out paid options that feel worth the investment.

This strategy works for any type of community. It’s a low-pressure way to meet people in your field, learn something new, or just feel plugged in.

2. Instagram (and Social Media) as a Community Hub

Beyond posting, I follow accounts that help foster community in LA. A few favorites:

• @americancinematheque — They run epic film series at theaters like The Egyptian. Great place to meet cinephiles.
• @creativelunchclub and @thirdplace.la — Curate thoughtful, niche gatherings for creatives.
• @infatuation_la — Spotlights buzzworthy restaurants, bars, and hangouts that make great social spots.

The algorithm isn’t all bad—when curated well, Instagram becomes a real-time event board for your city.

3. Volunteering: Community Through Service

Before COVID, I volunteered every other month—community cleanups, food banks, and tutoring gigs. It’s one of the most direct ways to connect with your city and its people.

If you’re in LA, LAWorks.org is a fantastic platform that aggregates volunteer opportunities across the city.

4. The Phone: Staying Grounded Through Real Conversations

Yes, actual phone calls. I used to use my long commutes to catch up with old friends and family. These days it’s tougher—many of my friends are married or have kids—but I still try.

When I do get someone on the line, I avoid the surface-level catch-up. I try to ask real questions and listen deeply. No one grounds you like someone who’s known you for 20 years. New people are great, but your long-term relationships help you stay anchored.